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I often find myself speaking because I feel the need to say something. Whether the circumstance determines this a good thing or not, it is a mixed bag.

What compels me to open my mouth and speak? Is there something really of worth to share? Might I just be taking a liberty when perhaps I shouldn't?

Too often people feel the need to speak.

I believe that words are very powerful. I believe they have the potential to encourage, heal and to also hurt. I wish I knew with certainty that I would only offer my words to encourage. Only to love and let those around me know how much desire for them to succeed and grow.

I fail in this.

Perhaps I should also forgive those who make the same mistakes. Who am I to hold this grudge against anyone?
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  1. Nathan NobleJuly 15, 2015 at 10:23 AM

    Forgive me for commenting on your blog with a blog post of my own...but I wrote on a similar topic a while ago...God give us grace to be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to become angry...

    http://ruminathan.blogspot.com/2009/02/learning-to-listen.html

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